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Day 8, Day 9 & Day 10 #Ramadan #Quran #Verseoftheday #Paradise #Charity #AngerManagement #Forgive #Chastity

– Day 8, Day 9 & Day 10
Forgive and be Forgiven  

And hasten to forgiveness from your Lord and a garden as wide as the heavens and earth, prepared for the righteous.

Those who spend [in the cause of Allah] during ease and hardship and who restrain anger and who pardon the people – and Allah loves the doers of good.

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And those who, when they commit immorality or wrong themselves, remember Allah and seek forgiveness for their sins – and who can forgive sins except Allah? and (who) do not persist in what they have done knowingly.

How beautiful is Islam, full of hope, for the door to forgiveness is always open till the last breath.

These verses from Surah Aal-e-Imran have multiple inter-related themes. Here I am, marveling at each verse and each word and each letter that is meaningful beyond comprehension. With gentle love and care, our Merciful Rabb shows us the path towards salvation, guiding us each step of the way, motivating us, telling us what to do.

The surface of the key subjects in these 3 verses can be at best barely touched upon as under:

  • Verse 133: Allah (swt) is using the word “Saa-ri-‘oo” – rush, hasten, run, compete towards Allah’s forgiveness. The word implies that we must not delay, for each moment is precious. Allah’s forgiveness is the only thing that can lead us to the unimaginable Paradise that He has lovingly prepared for the God-conscious. What fascinates me is the fact that the Quran recognizes that even the God-conscious or “Muttaqeen” who may eventually end up in Jannah with His Mercy, will make mistakes, but with effort and sincere intention to improve, they may attract Allah’s forgiveness. The people of Jannah are not perfect. But they accept their faults and strive to improve, and do good deeds that may wash away their sins. #Hope
  • Verse 134: SPEND – One of the sure shot ways to wash away your mistakes. And spending not conditionally only when you have lots to give, but spending in times of difficulty and financial restrain. Spending what we love. Spending even when we do not have a lot of “extra” to spend. Spend on those who live on earth, and He will forgive you and shower blessings on you from the heavens.
  • Verse 134: CONTROL ANGER – Anger in all its forms. Both inner and outer. Outer anger manifests itself as abuse, violence, taunts, sarcasm and harming the other. Inner anger manifests as grudges and ill feelings. The word “kaazimeen” is so apt – to suppress. Meaning the anger IS there, and in all probability is justified, and the person we are angry with may have hurt us or wronged us. Yet, true strength lies in controlling this negative emotion.
  • Verse 134: FORGIVE: Wow! So if we want Allah (swt) to forgive us, we have to forgive those who have harmed us. So many times, even if we are somehow able to suppress anger, the seething pain and the grudges towards those who have hurt us remain. They do not harm that person, mostly. These ill feelings damage the heart that is housing these ill feelings. Allah (swt) is telling us to let go of whatever it was. After all, if it is Allah (swt) on whom we have tawakkul (reliance), we have to trust that He Knows who hurt us and harmed us and scarred us. If we want to heal, this is the only path – forgetting may not be possible but forgiving (with a lot of hard work) is a possibility. So let go of that anger…..forgive…for inner peace. For Paradise will be home to those who have found inner peace 🙂
  • Verse 135: BEGGING FOR FORGIVENESS: Yes, even those who will eventually, InshaAllah, enter Paradise, make major mistakes and commit major sins….sins that come under immorality, indecency, and go against the command to guard their chastity. When they do so, they have wronged no one but themselves. The inner impressions such sins leave harm our soul, bit by bit. The verse addresses those who have harmed themselves. Recognizing that one has erred and accepting that it is we who harm ourselves is the first step towards forgiveness. When they ask Allah (swt) for forgiveness, Allah (swt) showers His forgiveness on His slaves. But the one condition this verse puts forth is this: Do not insist on repeating a sin when you realize it is a mistake. Strive and aim to ward it off, and ask Allah (swt) for the strength to be able to resist the temptations. And its beautiful when the verse says who can forgive but Allah (swt)? The piles and mountains of our sins can only find forgiveness in our Rabb, the Magnanimous and ever Merciful.

As the beautiful Hadeeth-e-Qudsi says:

On the authority of Anas, who said: I heard the messenger of Allah say:Allah the Almighty has said: “O son of Adam, so long as you call upon Me and ask of Me, I shall forgive you for what you have done, and I shall not mind. O son of Adam, were your sins to reach the clouds of the sky and were you then to ask forgiveness of Me, I would forgive you. O son of Adam, were you to come to Me with sins nearly as great as the earth and were you then to face Me, ascribing no partner to Me, I would bring you forgiveness nearly as great as its.” (Tirmidhi)

In this most special of months, let us forgive and beg Allah for forgiveness.

Love in War – The love story of a Syrian refugee

Published: December 20, 2015
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Tracey and Ahmed are waiting to begin a new life in Sweden once Ahmed gets legal residency in the country. PHOTOSCOURTESY: TRACEY SHELTON

Tracey and Ahmed are waiting to begin a new life in Sweden once Ahmed gets legal residency in the country. PHOTOSCOURTESY: TRACEY SHELTON

He is thousands of miles away from his home in Aleppo, Syria, in a refugee camp in Bastad, Sweden. The Nordic winter is bitterly harsh here in December. The journey as a refugee has been long and winding. “We travelled mostly on foot; it was dangerous,” says Ahmad Al Haj, one of the more than four million Syrian refugees who have had to leave home in quest of safety. But Ahmad says it was all worth it in the end, as in the midst of war and displacement he found the love of his life.

For Tracey Shelton, now Ahmad’s wife, the wait for her husband to get legal residency in Sweden is not easy. “It has been really tough being forced to stay apart for so long, but hopefully it will be coming to an end soon. His asylum has been approved; we are now undergoing what seems like an endless wait for them to issue his papers,” says the Australian journalist and photographer who has spent years covering conflict in volatile regions, including Iraq, Libya, Syria and Lebanon. She is presently living in Istanbul, Turkey, in what she calls a “limbo”, waiting to move to Sweden to start a new life with Ahmad.

Families grieving outside a hospital in Aleppo province after identifying the bodies of their loved ones following a government airstrike that killed civilians.

Images of those affected by the Syria crisis and painful headlines about the spillover effects of it tell much about the situation on ground, but millions of stories behind the images and headlines remain untold. Ahmad and Tracey’s love story is one of them.“Her work and her understanding of the situation in my region,” is one of the things Ahmad mentions when asked what drew him to her. By reporting on conflict and internal displacement, mostly within the Middle East, an affinity with Ahmad came naturally to Tracey. “After six years of working largely on frontlines and with Arab families, it’s hard for me to fit back into life in a Western country,” says Tracey.

The couple met socially when Tracey was living in Syria. “We met through a mutual friend. Ahmad and I got along really well from the beginning and became close friends. Things developed from there,” explains Tracey, adding that one of the reasons Ahmad took the trip to Europe was so that they could establish a life together.

Getting married was another obstacle for the two of them. Here were two people wanting to start a life together, and the proverbial man-made laws restricting them from doing so. “In Turkey it is illegal for a Sheikh (Muslim clergyman) to perform a nikaah (religious marriage) without a legal marriage so we couldn’t find anyone to do it there,” says Tracey. “Although in Islam, marriage between a Christian woman and a Muslim man is permitted, the Sheikhs did not want to accept the responsibility. We eventually found someone (to perform the nikaah) in Sweden, but we are still waiting for our marriage to be registered.” After trying for six months, the couple got married in June this year.

Protest against the Syrian government during a rally in Syria.

The couple has been living apart since Ahmad left Turkey for Europe earlier this year; they only get to meet sporadically when Tracey visits him. “Since he’s been in the camp, it’s harder for me to visit.”

While Ahmad has dreams of a secure future with Tracey, the ordeal has been traumatic. “Life was normal in Syria before the revolution. I never thought I’d be a refugee one day. I was still studying at the time and thought I’d go on to develop my career in IT,” reminisces Ahmad, son of a civil engineer and businessman and the eldest among three brothers and a sister. “The fighting in our area turned intense. It became hopeless to stay there. It was difficult to even get food and medicine. Our entire family left Syria together,” he recalls.

The Al Haj family, today, is spread all over, and none of them have yet acquired asylum anywhere. Ahmad’s father returned to Syria to try to sell some of his property, while his mother, brothers and sister are in Southern Turkey. “The displacement affected us in every way possible. I don’t have any legal status anywhere. On paper, technically, I didn’t exist. You have no rights, no identity, no work, and no way to study again,” says Ahmad, who now spends most of his time in the camp fixing everyone’s phones and laptops.

A boy holds up a piece of shrapnel during a protest in the town of Kureen in Syria.

Despite the situational difficulties and a mostly long distance relationship, the two of them lighten up when asked about each other. “He is intelligent, funny, cool, sweet and charming. He cares about me and looks after me in a way I never dreamt of. He is also excellent with languages. He speaks three languages expertly,” says Tracey. Ahmad’s easygoing charm worked on her, as he was easy to talk to, she shares. “He has a lot of knowledge and a deep understanding of things. I love talking with him and listening to his ideas.” For Ahmad, what attracted him to her was “how she treats people. Her personality. And her beautiful eyes”.Tracey recalls when she met him twice en route to Greece and Serbia. “The soles of his feet were just two huge blisters from walking, just cushions of liquid. I don’t know how he managed to walk on them. But from there they had to keep walking through to Hungary.”

According to Sweden’s migration agency Migrationsverket, the applications for asylum received by Sweden in January 2015 were 4,896. By November 2015, the number rose to 36,741, and more than 25,000 of these are males. So far this year, more than 120,000 people have applied for asylum in Sweden.

While the future looks bleak for Syrian refugees, they have certain advantages, according to Tania Karas, an Athens-based journalist covering migration and refugee issues. “Syrians in particular tend to be middle-class, educated and technologically literate,” she says, adding that while this may be a slight generalisation, it does mean that Syrians, more than other refugees, have an easier time navigating their journeys and assimilating into European society. “Another advantage is that Syrians are considered ‘prima facie’ refugees because there’s an active war going on in their country so they are highly likely to be granted refugee status,” says Karas, who has been actively working with Syrian refugees in the Greek island of Lesbos. More than half of the refugees and migrants who have reached Greece this year have landed at Lesbos. Some 3,460 lives have been lost crossing the Mediterranean, reveals data provided by the United Nations Refugee Agency (UNHCR).

The number of Syrians arriving in Europe seeking international protection continues to increase. However, according to the UNHCR, it remains low compared to Syria’s neighbouring countries, with slightly more than 10% of those who have fled the conflict seeking safety in Europe. Sweden which has had a very relaxed system in the past, where refugees could enter the country unobstructed, is now introducing border checks. The laissez-faire might not be feasible for Sweden any more, considering the very real security threats following the attacks in Paris. The situation, thus, seems poised to make life even tougher for the refugees. And a solution seems nowhere in sight.

An earlier photograph of Syrian rebel fighters praying before launching an anti-government attack near Idlib city.

UN High Commissioner for Refugees António Guterres acknowledges that this is the biggest refugee population from a single conflict in a generation. “It is a population that needs the support of the world but is instead living in dire conditions and sinking deeper into poverty,” Guterres says. According to the UNHCR, Syrians in exile face trials such as living in sub-standard shelters and below the poverty line in countries like Jordan and Lebanon. “Having to leave behind their family and friends and not knowing when they will see them again or whether they will see them alive are the prime difficulties Syrian refugees face,” says Argentina-based correspondent Kamilia Lahrichi. It’s tough for refugees to adapt to a new culture because of cultural barriers, she adds.While Ahmad appreciates European countries opening their gates for the refugees, and acknowledges that they try their best to help refugees and keep them comfortable, he is very clear when asked what he sees as a solution to the Syria crisis. “All of the outside countries — USA, Russia, Iran, Saudi Arabia — need to back off and let us solve our own problems. Foreign powers have made Syria their playground, trying to prove their strength,” he says. Tracey echoes the sentiment and expresses dismay at what started as a revolution has escalated into a regional proxy war. “Everything in Syria has become so complicated with too many players. I honestly don’t know what the solution is anymore.”

But for Ahmad, “the most difficult thing is being apart from Tracey” at the moment. “Until Ahmad’s final residency decision, everything is up in the air. Once it’s finalised Ahmad can start working here in Sweden and I can join him. We hope to start a family too,” says Tracey. Till then, love must wait.

Farahnaz Zahidi works as a senior subeditor at The Express Tribune. She tweets @FarahnazZahidi

Published in The Express Tribune, Sunday Magazine, December 20th, 2015.

We need to stop treating menstruation as a ‘fault’

Published: May 28, 2015

The bloody taboo refuses to be broken. Recently, an urban affluent woman was overheard commenting that advertisements for these products should be banned. PHOTO: FARAHNAZ ZAHIDI

“So what do you do when you… you know… have your monthly period?” I said to my domestic helper, after my mouth-gaping-open-in-shock reaction was over and I found my voice.

For an urban woman, what she was telling me was unthinkable. I was truly scandalised that many women in Pakistan’s underprivileged parts walk around with no sanitary cloth or napkins when they have their menstrual period. Others do use folded pieces of cloth, she told me, but even then the hygiene conditions she was describing were hardly satisfactory.

The year was 2010. Pakistan had been hit by one of the worst natural disasters in the country’s history – floods that affected the lives of some 20 million people. My friends and I were collecting donations and sending them off to remote villages and affected areas. Those working on ground were asking us to send dry food items, bedding, medicines, clothes and basic items like soaps and sanitary napkins.

“People here are breaking out into skin infections due to the stagnating dirty water. Women need their supplies for menstrual hygiene,” was the message we got.

Yet, here was a Pakistani woman hailing from a rural area, educating me in a basic reality – that even if we did send sanitary napkins, would those women, for whom even seeing a midwife in pregnancy is a luxury, know how to use it?

But then, realistically, is menstrual hygiene even a priority to ponder about for people living below the poverty line, unable to even get two square meals? It is all good, noble and convenient for me and my likes, to sit in our comfortable homes in the cities and talk down to poor women about how filthy is the way they handle something so basic. The reality is they have not had the exposure, nor the access to things we take for granted.

As the world celebrates Global Menstrual Hygiene Day on May 28, how far is Pakistan, in reality, from providing its female citizens the means to go through a natural physiological process with dignity?

Research points out that almost 50 per cent of Pakistani girls in rural areas and underprivileged circumstances miss school during their menstrual period, and absenteeism in school can improve drastically if they have access to protective material and proper toilet facilities at school. Yet, sanitary cloth and napkins remain not a basic need but a luxury for Pakistan’s daughters who cannot afford them, or are simply unaware. The problem becomes even gorier when faced by displaced women living in slums, camps for IDPs or in nomadic setups.

To go through their monthly cycle hygienically and in a dignified manner, girls and women need access to water and proper sanitation. Privacy is needed to change; water and soap is needed to wash their hands and the cloths if they are using those, and means to either dispose used materials or a private place to dry them in case of reusable cloths.

Poverty, however, is not the only issue here. The bloody taboo refuses to be broken. Recently, an urban affluent woman was overheard commenting that advertisements for these products should be banned. Giving credit where due, advertisements for sanitary napkins are actually now more decent than many other ads, and are actually more educative in nature in an attempt to raise awareness.

A two-pronged approach will, therefore, have to be adopted to help women of Pakistantriumph against the lack of a basic human right. For starters, they will have to be educated about the health-related consequences of not maintaining menstrual hygiene management(MHM). As a society, we will have to learn more about it. Systems have to be evolved for disposal of the waste cloths and napkins to not make it an environmental hazard, as well as let women have the dignity to dispose it respectfully.

Secondly, access to products that help women at a low cost is something we need to think about. Whether it be clean cotton or rags, or affordable napkins, women everywhere should have the right to procure them and use them. We need more initiatives to address the problem.

It is time the world stops treating menstruation as a fault for which women continue to pay a price by facing embarrassment and helplessness.

The poor woman’s disease: Living in pain for 25 years, Sursan Bibi smiles again

Published: May 22, 2015
The midwives of Koohi Goth Hospital. PHOTO: COURTESY FAISAL SAYANI

The midwives of Koohi Goth Hospital. PHOTO: COURTESY FAISAL SAYANI

QUETTA / KARACHI: For 25 long years, Sursan Bibi guarded a secret, one that she has only told her husband, Musa Khan, about. Sursan had an obstetric fistula, the pain of which is only exacerbated by the sense of shame that comes with leaking urine uncontrollably.

The prospect of treatment only came up recently, when a flyer about fistula and its treatment reached her village. Travelling 400 kilometres from Harnai district, her eldest son Hazrat brought her to Quetta. While her surgery was successful, Sursan, now 65, regrets the years of her life that were wasted.

Known as ‘the poor woman’s disease’, the obstetric fistula develops in prolonged labour when the mother cannot seek proper medical care or reach a trained midwife in time. “The baby’s head may get stuck in the birth canal and if it keeps pushing against the thin wall between the birth canal and the bladder or rectum, it causes a tear,” explains Dr Suboohi Mehdi, a surgeon at Karachi’s Koohi Goth Hospital, Pakistan’s most well-known hospital for the treatment of fistula. The result is urine or stool incontinence. For such women, who leak waste continually and are ostracised from society, normal life becomes a distant dream.

Sursan, married too early, gave birth to five children at home with the help of a dai (traditional birth attendant). In her village, the women are allowed to leave their homes only to visit relatives or take cattle for grazing; they are not allowed to seek medical help without being accompanied by their male relatives.

A day after her third child was born, she started to leak urine. The smell was unbearable. The dai told her husband that it would get better in a few days but days turned into decades, during which she bore two more children. Unlike most women suffering from this condition, Sursan’s husband didn’t abandon her.

Parts of Balochistan, like most underprivileged parts of Pakistan, have a high incidence of fistula. United Nations Population Fund (UNFPA) provincial coordinator Ahsan Tabasum, talking to The Express Tribunein Quetta, says that the UNFPA and Pakistan National Forum for Women Health (PNFWH) are working together to eradicate this disease from Balochistan.

“We have centres for fistula treatment in three hospitals in Quetta, where the patients are treated free of charge,” he discloses. Around 515 patients have received treatment here since 2006, with a success rate of over 90 per cent, while the UNFPA has helped over 5,000 women in Pakistan with surgical treatment for the disease through its seven regional centres in the country.

A lot of women travel all the way from all provinces to Karachi to get treatment at Koohi Goth Hospital. Surgeons here are trying to salvage 33-years-old Gulzada Zaman’s bladder. But for Gulzada, it may already be too late. “If only a skilled midwife would have told her in time that her next delivery should be surgically done, this girl’s life could have been saved,” laments Noor Gul, a midwife who has been serving at Koohi Goth since nine years. “The lack of awareness, and how easily the disease can be avoided, is very frustrating. Doctors cannot always reach far flung areas, so the key is having trained midwives in every part of Pakistan,” she says.

Noor and her colleagues have to not only bathe and clean the patients who arrive after strenuous journeys, but also have to psychologically counsel them and make them believe that they are not “unclean”. Complicated cases require more than one surgery, and treatment and rehabilitation can take months.

Another kind of fistula, fast increasing in number, is the iatrogenic fistula which develops when an unskilled surgeon performs a surgery poorly due to malpractice and lack of training.

UNFPA has supported more than 5000 women to receive surgical treatment for fistula in Pakistan through their seven regional centres in the country. The campaign involves three key strategies – prevention, treatment and social reintegration of survivors. Yet, more needs to be done. According to Tariq Nisar, Media Coordinator for PNFWH, “an estimated 3000 to 5000 year new cases develop each year in Pakistan.” Women like Sursan who suffer from obstetric fistula are usually among the hardest to reach, and are often illiterate and with limited access maternal and reproductive health care. With gender and socio-economic inequality, lack of schooling, child marriage and early child bearing already holding back Pakistan’s underprivileged women, patients smelling due to the fistula suffer from further marginalization. Even when cured, the psychological impacts remain, and many are abandoned by families too.

Meanwhile, Sursan Bibi’s smile has returned. “I will not advise any woman in my village to go to the dai,” she vows. “Instead, I will urge them to visit the gynaecologist.”

Published in The Express Tribune, May 23rd, 2015. 

Women empowerment: Educating the girl to become a strong woman

By Farahnaz Zahidi

Published: May 3, 2015

http://tribune.com.pk/story/880026/women-empowerment-educating-the-girl-to-become-a-strong-woman/

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The university recently signed a memorandum of understanding with the All Pakistan’s Woman Association. PHOTO: REUTERS

LAHORE: “Being a woman doesn’t mean I am less than a man in any way,” Hiba Hassan, a 22-year-old student at the Lahore College for Women University (LCWU), says. The young head girl of her class speaks of a sense of motivation and empowerment that she attributes to sensitisation regarding gender equality that she and her fellow students have been exposed to at the university.

The university recently signed a memorandum of understanding with the All Pakistan’s Woman Association (APWA), one of the first partnerships of its kind for gender equality. Together, they organise workshops and trainings for students and teachers to increase an understanding of gender equality. Part of the objective is to include women in peace processes at all levels and celebrate them as agents of peace.

Professor Shireen Asad, the student affairs director at the college, says, “We have more than 12,000 students studying up to PhD level. As an institute we feel that women’s empowerment is a basic pillar of progress.” Asad, an expert in psychology, says she believes that it is important to expose girls to ideas that could help them develop confidence and self-worth.

Durre Shahwar, the programme director at the APWA, echoes Asad’s sentiments. “I work on programmes to protect the girl child from exploitation. I believe in raising awareness in children’s formative years.” Shahwar has been working with the APWA to educate young women and men students about gender equality.

She says boys studying at the Ahmed Hassan Polytechnique College are being educated about these basics as part of their efforts. “We are working on another project with 200 girls from Kinnaird College. They will be involved in community service and will become agents of change,” Shahwar says. Recently, the association held a national conference titled the Role of Women in Promoting Peace and Harmony for a better Pakistan. The conference aimed to provide a platform to key stakeholders to come together and highlight the importance of women in peace and development. More than 200 students distributed pink scarves with messages of peace and equality painted on them. The scarves were made by students themselves. “Equality is not possible without economic empowerment,” says Shahwar. She says the APWA has been working on micro-finance projects aimed at helping out financially underprivileged women.

Published in The Express Tribune, May 3rd, 2015.

Rising from the rubble in Nepal

Published: April 29, 2015

http://tribune.com.pk/story/877698/rising-from-the-rubble-in-nepal/

Krishna Ramtel, the miraculous survivor of the Dharahara Tower fall.

Krishna Ramtel, the miraculous survivor of the Dharahara Tower fall.

KARACHI: Nepal lies in ruins. Over 5,000 souls have perished – but, according to some estimates, the figure could go up to 10,000. The lucky ones who survived are petrified as the earth continues to shake after the April 25 apocalyptic temblor in the tiny Himalayan state.

In Pimbahal neighbourhood of Lalitpur district, no one sleeps inside their homes. Even though mercury drops to as low as 12 degrees at night, most Nepalese sleep out on the streets in tents – within a stone’s throw of their houses.

“Ours is perhaps the only family that sleeps in their homes in this neighbourhood. We are comparatively less scared because we have a new house with stronger foundations,” Montessori Rajbhandari told The Express Tribune by phone from Nepal. It has been a very busy four days for Montessori, a broadcast journalist at Ujyaalo 90 Network, Nepal’s largest, independent radio network.

“We are reporting, sending out reporters as far as they can go, and coordinating with the government. In parts, roads are blocked. Kathmandu is still better off. But places like Sindhupalchowk district are in ruins. So many have died,” says Montessori.

Sindhupalchowk, Rasuwa, Nuwakot, Kavrepalanchowk, Kathmandu, Lalitpur and Bhaktapur are among the worst hit areas, says Montessori.

Estimates from UN say that some eight million people have been affected after the 7.8 magnitude quake hit the picturesque Nepal, already struggling with developmental issues like poverty and hunger.

“Krishna was up in the Dharahara Tower when the earthquake hit, one of the tallest buildings in Nepal. The tower collapsed; only the base remains. Krishna has survived,” says Montessori, sharing the incredible tale of survival of 27-year-old Krishna Ramtel, who is currently under treatment in Bir Hospital. Around 180 bodies were removed from the site of the crumbled tower. Built in 1832, Dharahara was one of the heritage sites of Nepal recognised by Unesco. “We had seven such sites; now we are left with only three. Four of our world heritage sites have been damaged badly.” Krishna’s story is up on the Ujyaalo website. “The headline is ‘Am I alive?’” says Montessori, translating into English.

The website is filled with videos and photographs of crumbled buildings and devastated people. Photographs show the dismal remnants of Khokana, a unique village in Lalitpur district, central Nepal. Known as a living museum, Khokana had kept its rich tradition alive, with its unusual mustard oil harvesting technique a tourist attraction.

The locals wonder if the municipality will ever rise from the rubble.

Answering a question regarding what the effected people need most, and how countries like Pakistan can help best, Montessori responds promptly by saying “food”. “Our people already suffer from hunger and food insecurity. They need to be fed”. In times of crises, worst hit are the vulnerable communities, especially women and children. “Take just one example. Paropakar Maternity and Women’s Hospital, Thapathali in Kathmandu, has been partially damaged and is cracked,” shares Montessori. “There are more patients now than the hospital can accommodate. The result is that women who are there for childbirth, and newborn babies, are living in the open air in cold weather. Cases of pneumonia are on the rise.”

When asked if she and the people of Nepal are satisfied with their government’s performance in this hour of need, she laughs. “Everyone is complaining…In developing countries we are never satisfied that our governments are doing enough.”

Published in The Express Tribune, April 29th, 2015. 

Just a thank you note

Thank you, friends! Each of your votes helped. Alhamdulilah I am now one of the winners of Women Deliver 2015 – the only Pakistani. This win is for Pakistan!

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